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Compulsive sexual behavior and betrayal trauma are often far more complex than they first appear. What can look like a behavior issue or relationship crisis usually involves deeper, interconnected patterns that are difficult to untangle without a clear framework. Lasting change requires more than insight or support alone. It requires a structured, evidence-based approach that can stabilize the situation, clarify what’s happening, and create a deliberate path forward. 

 

That is the focus of my work.

SPECIALIST IN SEX ADDICTION & BETRAYAL TRAUMA RECOVERY IN HOLLADAY, UT

Welcome. My name is Hayley Leishman, I’m a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) and Certified Partner Trauma Therapist (CPTT), specializing in helping individuals navigate the complex impact of sex addiction and betrayal trauma. 

Whether you’re struggling to stop unwanted sexual behaviors or trying to make sense of the devastation of betrayal, you’re likely carrying an overwhelming amount of pain. You may feel stuck in cycles of shame, secrecy, anxiety, hypervigilance, or hopelessness, wondering if things will ever feel different.

Therapy provides a dedicated space to slow down, truly be seen, understand the underlying patterns driving these experiences, and rebuild trust in yourself and in relationships. Together, we’ll work to restore stability, strengthen resilience, and help you move toward healthier relationships, greater self-understanding, and a life that feels more connected and authentic.

I provide specialized, individualized care tailored to your unique circumstances, rather than a one-size-fits-all approach. Learn more about me here.

Click the link below if you are ready to move forward in your healing journey. 

Frequently Asked Questions

I work with adults who are struggling with all types of addiction. Whether you are struggling with substance misuse, problematic sexual behaviors (sex addiction, pornography addiction, love addiction), or any other addictive behaviors, I have extensive experience and training to help you finally find freedom from your addiction. I also treat all types of trauma including betrayal trauma, childhood abuse and neglect, sexual trauma, and complex PTSD.

YES! Sex positivity is an extremely important aspect of my work as a certified sex addiction therapist (CSAT). Problematic sexual behavior (sex addiction and pornography addiction) is COMPLEX and NUANCED. As a CSAT, I am exceptionally skilled at detangling cultural and religious shame, sexual trauma, and compulsive sexual behavior. Accurate assessment followed by appropriate treatment planning is central to recovery from sex addiction - healthy sexuality and sex positivity are at the core of the recovery process.

Additionally, I am LGBTQ+ safe and affirming. All are welcome here.

No, I am an out-of-network (OON) provider, meaning I am not contracted with any insurance companies. However, I partner with Mentaya to help check your out-of-network benefits. If you have OON benefits, you’ll pay for the therapy session upfront. Afterward, I will submit a 'superbill' to your insurance company, and they will reimburse you directly for a percentage of the session fee. Depending on your insurance that could range anywhere from 50% to 80% of the session fee. Usually a deductible has to be met first. Please contact your insurance company directly to find out more about your out-of-network benefits.

$155 for a 50 minute session, $232 for an 80 minute session. I offer a free 30 minute video or phone consultation visit where you can ask questions, get a feel for my personality, and determine if I am the right therapist for you! You can schedule that HERE.

 

This is a tough question to answer because every client is unique and has different goals for therapy. My goal is to help you navigate the challenges that brought you here with confidence and ease, as quickly as possible, but at a pace that feels comfortable for you. If you’re new to therapy and working through complex trauma, it may take longer than if you’ve been in therapy before and are looking to get unstuck or back on track. As we begin working together and I get a better idea of your unique circumstances we can explore a timeline for therapy duration.

 

I take a client-centered and holistic approach to therapy. The specific interventions I use will be customized for your specific needs. I have found that using a mix of EMDR, IFS, and somatic work (Polyvagal Theory) can be extremely effective when working with trauma and addiction. To learn more about me and my approach to therapy, click here.

Yes, our sessions are completely confidential with a few exceptions. The first is Utah law states that I am required to report any suspected abuse or neglect of a child, elderly person, or vulnerable adult. I am also required to take action (notify law enforcement) if someone is at risk for harming themselves or others. Additionally, if you request that I share information about your treatment with another person (ie a partner or another healthcare provider), I require written consent (release of information) to do so.

Cancellations and re-scheduled sessions will be subject to a full charge if not received at least 24 hours in advance. This is necessary because a time commitment is made to you and is held exclusively for you. If you are late for a session, you may lose some of that session time.

Yes, I offer telehealth and in-office sessions in Holladay, Utah!

Connect With Me

Address

6375 S Highland Dr #102
Holladay, UT 84121

Phone

801-651-0306

Email Address

[email protected]

Business Hours

MON - THU
By Appointment Only

Compassionate and Skilled Individual Therapy for Addiction and Trauma serving all of Utah

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Early childhood trauma and neglect profoundly impact how someone navigates their emotional landscape. This is the client who has learned to internalize emotions, has difficulty expressing themselves, they often struggle with emotional intimacy, they may engage in addictive behaviors, when relational conflict arises they blow up or shut down. Their emotional dysregulation results in disconnection and avoidance or an anxious and excessive dependency on others (insecure attachment styles). Ultimately, at the core of this type of trauma is a decreased capacity to sit with, name, express, and cope with difficult emotional experiences.

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